When people hear about abusive controlling relationships, they often ask, “Why doesn’t she just leave?” or “How did he allow himself to end up in that situation?”
In the beginning of a relationship, the abuser starts off with a subtle controlling behavior that is often misinterpreted as love. This is especially true if the victim came from a family where they received little attention or affection. The partner’s constant monitoring may seem enduring and pleasant, simply because you don’t know the characteristics of a healthy, loving relationship. As time passes, you will find yourself in an abusive relationship with no way to escape.

It is important to know the signs of control early in a relationship, as it can help you identify unhealthy behaviors and avoid potentially abusive situations.
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