Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde: The Narcissistic Husband

As the scapegoat of a narcissistic parent, I unknowingly attracted parasitic friends and lovers into my life.  To my surprise, my prince charming, who love bombed me in the initial stages of our manipulationship, turned out to be a wolf in sheep’s clothing.  I quickly found myself trapped in a cycle of idealize, devalue, and discard.  Lost in the upheaval of emotional and psychological abuse bestowed upon me by a man who I initially believed was my happily ever after left me empty. 

I, the perfect victim, blinded by my need for approval and acceptance that I never received during my childhood.  So lost in fact that I did not see ALL the red flags that are now so blatantly obvious as I look back on my 23 year prison sentence I termed a marriage.  I was conditioned for eternal abuse at the hands of the person I thought I loved.

WHAT changed THE COURSE OF MY LIFE?

My two daughters, wise beyond their years, can be credited with freeing me from my cell.  They told me my soon to be ex husband was in fact a narcissist.  Like ice cold water running down a dry throat in a scorching desert, my youngest daughter’s words breathed life into my fatigued soul when she said, “Mommy, you deserve better.”  It put me on a quest to find out the truth about the man I had devoted the rest of my life to.  And this truth I found altered my future, as I have now separated from my estranged husband.

A relationship that began with a whirlwind of gifts, affection, and love bombing soon left me confused, as I found myself yoked to Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.  Learning that the man I fell in love with never existed was soul shattering.  To assist other scapegoats from making the same mistake, I am going to share 10 characteristics of a narcissistic partner.

10 SIGNS OF A NARCISSISTIC PARTNER

1.      Constant need for admiration and validation

When I lived with my ex, I had to be very careful what I said to him.  He wanted to be praised and admired all the time.  If I made a comment that he took as criticism, he would get very upset and start an argument.  So, I had to structure my sentences in such a way that I did not make him feel as if I were not showing him the utmost respect at all times in order to keep peace in our home.

2.      Lack of empathy towards others

He was a very selfish man who did not like to share or give to others.  I found pleasure in giving to others who were less fortunate, and he scolded me for doing so.  During the holidays, I often bought gifts for family members and put both of our names on them. He would never give to the homeless. In fact, he delighted in the suffering of family members and friends.

3.      Manipulative behavior to get what they want

He lied all the time.  From the first day I met him, this man lied about his occupation, his sexual encounters, and everything else he thought he needed to in order to trap me.  Throughout our marriage, I often caught him lying and taking things that didn’t belong to him.  As long as he thought he could get away with this behaviour, he felt empowered to do so.

4.      Grandiose sense of self-importance

This man believed he was the best looking person in the world.  He was extremely vain and loved showing off his muscles.  He had an over inflated ego that I found repugnant.  He lacked humility. 

5.      Difficulty accepting criticism or feedback

Any type of feedback directed at him fell on deaf ears.  He refused to listen to sound wisdom and guidance and often took advice as an assault against his perfection.

6.      Sense of entitlement and expectation of special treatment

He thought he should have anything he wanted, regardless of the cost.  He wanted the best of everything and would never consider the financial obligation.  This led to excessive debts and unpaid bills. He purchased luxury cars and would take them to the car wash weekly. When he was there, he bossed around the workers commanding them to clean his car to perfection and would never leave a tip.

7.      Tendency to exploit others for personal gain

Deception empowered him to continue on his destructive path.  He found pleasure in deceiving others to get what he wanted.  He was a habitual liar, and he took pride in gaining the trust of others.

8.      Difficulty maintaining healthy relationships

He had very little friends and most of his family members avoided him.  He often blamed the other party for this, but as time went on, I realized he was the problem.

9.      Jealousy and possessiveness in relationships

He was very controlling and would not allow me to go anywhere without him.  He put trackers on my phone without my consent and often invaded my privacy by reading my emails, diary, and other personal literature to ensure I remained faithful to him.

10.  Inability to take responsibility for their actions

Every problem that occurred in our family was my fault. He never took responsibility for anything negative that happened in our home, even when we all knew it was his fault. 

As an adult, your home should be a peaceful sanctuary.  A place where you can escape the pressures of life.  When you live with a narcissistic spouse, life becomes very dull and harsh.  It is important that you recognize the characteristics of a narcissistic person early in your relationship, so you protect your life experience.

If you notice any of these signs in your significant other, I encourage you to do further research.  Narcissism is an incurable mental illness which leaves the partner of a narcissist in a lifetime of misery and regret. 

August 2023 Super Blue Moon Group Ritual

Are there things you have been dreaming of that you believe are impossible to occur in this lifetime? Those things that only occur “once in a blue moon?” Well, I am here to tell you ALL things are possible during this celestial event!

On August 30, 2023, we will witness a Super Blue Moon! This magical event will occur in Pisces and packs enough cosmic energy to blur the lines between the physical and spiritual planes.

This is one event you can’t afford to miss!

Join the cosmic family in a group ritual that is designed to:

Clear your energy centers

Remove negative energies from our lives

Increase your conscious awareness

Unleash Your Spiritual Gifts and Abilities

This cosmic event has the power to make your dreams come true!

Hybrid Solar Eclipse: Group Ritual, April 20, 2023

On April 20, 2023, we will witness a heavenly event that only occurs a few times every century.  A hybrid solar eclipse will occur as a new moon in Aries, giving us the strength we need to change our lives for the better.  We invite you to combine your energies with the cosmic family in a group ritual designed to bring divine protection, financial stability, and mental clarity as negative energies are removed from our lives.   

Metaphysically, solar eclipses are associated with transformation, change, and new beginnings.  However, with a challenging square aspect to Pluto, the spiritual meaning of the April 2023 solar eclipse deals with relinquishing control. 

In spiritual and esoteric traditions, the sun symbolizes our conscious awareness, and an eclipse represents a moment where our external reality is momentarily obscured, allowing us to turn inward and explore our own subconscious realms.  Thus granting us the opportunity for personal growth, transformation, and a chance to shed old patterns that no longer serve us.

During this solar eclipse, there is a risk of crisis as humanity is forced to deal with power struggles.  Those who do not correctly harness the energy will experience a desire for more power and influence, with a tendency to be more assertive and controlling, leading to stress, ego conflicts, power struggles or crises with your self-confidence, esteem, or identity. 

Group Ritual

To ensure this powerful energy is used for our benefit, we are hosting a group ritual, April 20, 2023.  The power of a solar eclipse heightens spiritual energies, making this a wonderful time for meditation and contemplation. 

During this event, we will tap into a positive spiritual influence from a fixed star to help us let go of our need to be in control while granting us the ability to achieve our goals.  If you have been searching for work or housing, I highly recommend you take part in this ritual.  Pluto’s influence will increase our energy, strength, and motivation.  

This ritual will:

Usher in divine protection

Remove negativity from our lives

Increase conscious awareness

Increase financial success

A significant transformation and spiritual rebirth are possible for all who participate.  This ritual will jumpstart the evolutionary process, catapulting you to a higher spiritual level as you release things that are no longer serving you.  

The Law of Attraction will Lead to Disaster: Reclaim the Ancient Art of Detachment

Many spiritual people are promoting the law of attraction, knowing it will lead to emotional turmoil.  Focusing all your energy on houses, jobs, and relationships will only push them further away from you, giving your enemies more power in your life.

WHY?

Attraction and attachment go hand in hand.  When you finally get what you desire and you lose it, it can destroy you!  Most people who attract their desires are terrified of losing what they have achieved.  Losing their dream job, home, or loved one will send them into a tailspin, which is what I see happening to millions of people today. 

My followers are familiar with my story regarding my narcissistic mother and all the trauma she inflicted on my life since childhood.  Her abuse made me a better person who has learned the ancient art of detachment.  Her constant sabotage, intending to ruin my life, led me to this spiritual concept as things I gained lost value.  Deep down I knew it was a matter of time before I lost them, especially if I shared it with her or one of my siblings; so I never became attached to items, people, or situations.

This is an important spiritual principle the world has forgotten since demonic forces conquered it. Today’s metaphysicians and spiritual practitioners teach the opposite, encouraging people to yearn for things they will eventually lose. Their philosophy states the reason they are experiencing bad things is because their negative thoughts are attracting them. Thus, blaming the victim for their abusive situations. This couldn’t be further from the truth!

Regardless of how many happy thoughts you think, how you try to raise your vibrational energy, or how hard you meditate, bad things will happen to you because we live in a fallen world. This planet fell in vibration many years ago, opening the door to negative entities.  These parasites feed off humanity’s misery and despair, so they encourage you to desire things in hopes you will lose them.

ATTRACTING AND ATTACHING TO ANYTHING OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF IS A CALLING CARD FOR SPIRITUAL DISASTER

When you get attached to your home, job, and relationship and lose them for various reasons these entities gain sustenance.  Your suicidal and depressive thoughts are a delicacy to them.  The only way to free yourself and reclaim your peace is to detach!  This is why your Bible told you to wear people as a loose garment and to put your treasures in heaven where the thieves can’t steal or destroy them.  And of course, we KNOW heaven is inside of us! 

Over the course of my life, I have lost friends, family members, homes, and jobs. Cruel and demonic spirits have crushed many of my dreams and aspirations. When I first started the Golden Race, I had dreams of growing this metaphysical society into a worldwide organization. And, as usual, these negative entities followed us from platform to platform, sabotaging everything we attempted to do. This was a spiritual reminder to detach by not allowing these people to have rulership over my spiritual destiny. 

The Establishment uses this same attachment tactic on its citizens, encouraging them to buy homes, go to college, and maintain employment, knowing they have plans to tank the economy by raising taxes, increasing interest rates, or criminalizing normal activities.  As they strip people of their wealth, sadness and depression increases.  Their sabotaging tactics lowers the frequency on this realm thus granting them more power in this dimension.

DO NOT ATTRACT AND ATTACH….

DETACH!

Although this planet is being set free, more negative things must happen in order to shake humanity from its slumber. During this transitional period, your detachment is the only thing that will save you.  Death has been used for eons to put the herd into submission.  But, I warn you, as I did with the global vaccinations, those who attempt to save their lives will lose it! 

Reach the point where you don’t care if you get a house, a car, a job, or the person of your dreams.  If you do, GREAT, if you don’t, THAT’S FINE TOO! That is the only way to regain your power.  Once you do this, you will no longer care what they say about you, how they feel about you, or what they’re doing to hurt you.  The only thing that will matter is YOU… OPENING THE WAY TO YOUR DIVINE ASCENSION. 

Join the 30-Day Vegan Challenge

As the cost of eggs and meat are skyrocketing, more people are considering adopting a vegan lifestyle.  The financial savings coupled with the many health benefits makes this a win-win situation.

Initially, people adopted a vegan lifestyle to save animals from harsh treatment in our commercial slaughterhouses.  Upon doing so, they noticed positive changes in their bodies.  These documented changes have caught the attention of others who are interested in adopting a healthier lifestyle. 

When you switch from a western diet to a vegan diet you will eliminate meat and animal products, thus requiring you to rely more heavily on other foods such as:

  • whole grains
  • fruits
  • vegetables
  • beans
  • peas
  • nuts
  • seeds

This results in a higher daily intake of beneficial nutrients since vegans generally consume considerably more legumes, fruits, and vegetables than nonvegans.

Several studies have reported that vegan diets tend to provide more fiber, antioxidants, and beneficial plant compounds. They also appear to be richer in potassium, magnesium, folate, and vitamins A, C, and E.

Benefits of Adopting a Vegan Lifestyle

Weight Loss

People who are looking to lose weight have discovered that a vegan diet can help you reach your goals.  

Heart Health

In addition to weight loss, eating fresh fruits and vegetables, legumes, and fiber is linked to a lower risk of heart disease.

Protection Against Type 2 Diabetes

Vegans tend to have lower blood sugar levels and higher insulin sensitivity, thus having a lower risk of developing type 2 diabetes. 

Protection from Cancers

Adopting a vegan lifestyle may also reduce the risk of colon, prostate, and pancreatic cancers.

Strengthen Your Immune System

Many diseases are transferred to humans through animal products.  In fact, Ischemic heart disease, Hypertension, Stroke, Obesity, Type 2 diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and Prostate and colon cancer are all linked to the consumption of meat products. Therefore, adopting a vegan lifestyle will assist those who are suffering with these ailments.

In honor of Valentine’s Day and Black History month, we are hosting a 30-Day Vegan Challenge for our members, subscribers, and followers.

Date: February 15, 2023 until March 16, 2023

Cost: FREE

Location: Online Event

Participants will have access to a closed group. They will receive vegan recipes, health tips and videos, and much, MUCH MORE! 

Don’t Delay

Register Today

God is a Narcissist

I remember asking myself, “How can she act so horribly and claim to be a Christian?  Isn’t her god loving and kind?”  Like most Christians, my mother read the bible ALL the time, paid her tithes and offerings, and prided herself in her faith in God.  In fact, I often woke up to the sound of her praying at 6 am, yet she is still hell on wheels!  How can this be?  It wasn’t until I started reading the bible for myself that I quickly discovered where her narcissistic behavior stemmed from….her God!

Yes, the God of the bible who is worshipped by the three-headed dog of religion; Judaism, Christianity, and Islam is a narcissist who has poured his narcissistic spirit (holy ghost) into his millions of worshippers.  

Don’t believe me? 

Let’s revisit the classic character traits of a narcissist.

God’s Narcissistic Traits

Pompous sense of importance

God told his followers they could have no other god before him. Exodus 20:3 If they disobeyed, he threatened to forsake and destroy them. 

Divides his children into two categories: golden children and scapegoats

He treats his “golden children,” with love and kindness as long as they are obedient to his will. You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the father in my name, he may give it to you.” John 15:16

The “scapegoats” or gentiles were often forsaken and abused by God and his golden children due to their unwillingness to follow his rules. “They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts.” Ephesians 4:18

Believes he is better than every other god

He believes he is the only deity that matters.  “I am the Lord, and there is no other. Besides me, there is no God;” Isaiah 45:5

Requires excessive admiration and praise  

He surrounds himself with angels and beings who worship him day and night making himself the center of attention. “Therefore, “they are before the throne of God and serve him day and night in his temple;” Revelations 7:15

Hurts people who refuse to obey him

He feels vindicated in destroying the lives of people who do not follow his instructions Promising to curse your business, family, health, mental state, and everything you attempt to do. “But it shall come about, if you do not obey the LORD your God, to observe to do all His commandments and His statutes with which I charge you today, that all these curses will come upon you and overtake you….” Deuteronomy 28:15-68 

Lack of empathy and Narcissistic Rage

There were several incidents where humanity was destroyed simply because he became upset.  Remember Noah and the flood? “All the inhabitant of the earth are accounted as nothing, and he does what he wills with the hosts of heaven and the inhabitants of the earth.”  Daniel 4:35

Envious

God told his followers he is a jealous God.  “You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me,” Exodus 20:5 No wonder mama tried to curse my children…

Exploits others

He promised to steal other people’s wealth and give it to his golden children.  “When the Lord your God brings you into the land he swore to your fathers, to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, to give you—a land with large, flourishing cities you did not build, 11 houses filled with all kinds of good things you did not provide, wells you did not dig, and vineyards and olive groves you did not plant—then when you eat and are satisfied,” Deuteronomy 6:10-11

His actions are unpredictable

His actions towards people vary based on how he feels.  “So, he has mercy on whomever he chooses, and he hardens the heart of whomever he chooses.” Romans 9:18

The more I analyzed his actions and the actions of the narcissistic people who fill the pews and synagogues, it became blatantly clear: I did not desire to have a relationship with this god.  Pastor Porkshop encouraged my mom to act in a “godly” fashion and, trust me, she has NOT strayed!  In fact, the demonic environment she calls church has fostered her narcissistic tendencies, building her up in self-righteousness and pride. 

Unfortunately, she is one of many who will hurt you and feel justified in doing so. Therefore, I highly recommend you stay clear of these religious organizations if you desire to live a peaceful life. The minute you fail to follow their rules, they will turn on you like a rabid dog, proclaiming they are about their father’s business!  

Narcissism is Incurable

As mentioned in a previous article, narcissism is NOT a mental issue, it is a spiritual one.  A disagreeable spirit powers people who are dealing with malignant narcissism.  The only way you can “cure” a demonic spirit is by exposing it and casting it out!

Mental health practitioners will tell you counseling does NOT work on those who are suffering with narcissism.  Why?” Because traditional techniques are ineffective due to its inability to address the root problem. 

Their behavior is normal based on their spiritual composition. 

Contrary to popular belief, demons are NOT in hell, they reside on earth.  They incarnate in physical bodies, just like angels.  Unfortunately, most of humanity has lost their divine sight and can no longer see spirits that inhabit bodies.

Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.”

Hebrews 13:12

My mother told me a story about a snake who was freezing to death in the cold.  A man walked by, saw the snake’s miserable condition, and felt sorry for him.  He wrapped the snake in a warm blanket, took him inside his home, fed him, and nursed him back to health.  Once the creature regained his strength, he bit the man.  As the man lay dying, he looked at the snake and asked, “After all I did for you, why did you bite me?”

The snake replied, “Don’t take it personally, it’s my nature.  I’m a snake!”

I never forgot this story, as I believe this was her way of explaining future events that would occur between us.  After gaining divine insight, I realize she hasn’t just hurt me. She has harmed many people during her lifetime because of who she is.  It is not in her nature to have unconditional love, respect, honesty, empathy, or true devotion.  She is inhabited by a demonic spirit which is only capable of acting in a specific manner, and if I choose to deal with her, regardless of how nice or respectable I am, she will continue to hurt me.  Therefore, I decided to leave her alone.

She is one of many.  Like the compassionate acts the man bestowed upon the snake, therapeutic techniques are ineffective because they cannot change the nature of a narcissist. In fact, many have fooled and manipulated their therapists into granting them an early release from their scheduled sessions.  Their cunning nature coupled with their arrogance has deceived millions of innocent people into joining them in matrimony, relationships, job assignments, and other positions of leadership that ultimately led to mental despair for everyone who was unfortunate enough to cross their paths. 

The best thing you can do if you are dealing with a narcissist is focus on own protection.  I recommend cutting off all forms of communication.  Change your phone number, get a PO box address, and do not tell anyone associated with your narcissist where you live.  Have all of your billing statements emailed to you and use a pseudo-name and email address when you conduct business online.  Although this sounds extreme, these measures may save you a lifetime of pain.

 

Take this Quiz to Find Out if Your Mother is a Narcissist

Watching my video about narcissistic mothers may have struck a chord with you, leaving you wondering if your mother is a narcissist. Although many people have narcissistic traits, they may not be a true narcissist. Take this quick assessment to find out.

Directions: Count how many of these traits your mother has, then read the results at the end to find out if your she is a narcissist.

1. EVERYTHING IS ABOUT YOUR MOTHER. She is ALWAYS the center of attention. Although she will NEVER share your success with you, she often brags about you to others to make her look good.

2. She loves drama and feeds off tragedy.

3. Gaslighting is her forte: LIES AND DENIES! Her cruelties are sly and subtle, and their cumulative effect is devastating. When you attempt to remind her of previous wrongdoings in an attempt to heal, she’ll flat out deny it ever happened.

4. She constantly belittles you overtly and subtly with a glance or tone of voice.

5. She is very sensitive to criticism, no matter how mild. She falls into a rage at the smallest provocation, even over simple requests like better treatment.

6. She is very critical and often uses snide comments and constant rundowns in her description of others.

7. She willfully and consistently ignores your boundaries on ALL levels: physical, mental, and emotional.

8. At times, she will ignore you as if you don’t matter, abandoning you as her irrelevant audience member.

9. She is very clever subtly, picking her moments of abuse so there are no witnesses, making it very hard to explain her behavior to others.

10. She publicly pretends to be a great mother, often telling you “I was so worried about you,” but her words lack sincerity.

11. She divides her children into two categories: golden children and scapegoats to conquer and control them.

12. She is envious of your success and will attempt to ruin your experiences to knock you off your “high horse.”

13. She is incapable of giving a genuine apology. She often says things like, “I’m sorry if you got upset” OR “You are too sensitive.”

14. She never accepts responsibility and will blame you for whatever happens.

15. She cannot accept your apology believing the one who’s been offended has the moral high ground and accepting an apology loses that. So, she’ll say things like “It’s too late, you’ve ruined it now.”

16. She lacks empathy, thus, she is unable to feel other people’s pain. Although she may say, “Oh, isn’t that terrible! You poor child,” there’s no genuine empathy behind her words. The emotion she displays is excitement as she feeds off the drama.

17. She observes and takes advantage of human emotion. An expert analyst of normal human behavior, she uses it to manipulate people.

18. Provocation is the tool she uses to hurt you so she can feed on your pain, thus, she is an energy vampire.

19. Selfishness is her middle name as she never gives without strings attached. Instead of monetary gifts, she often lends money, ensuring you are indebted to her.

20. The gifts she gives are intended to gain control over the recipient.

21. She cannot take “no” for an answer, often putting you in awkward situations. She finds a way to manipulate you into accepting her behavior. For example: She asks if she can bring a friend to your house, and you say NO. She arrives with the friend anyway, knowing you won’t ask the friend to leave.

22. She makes your bad situation her personal burden. For example, your ailment cannot compare to her trauma of being the loving mother of an ill daughter, therefore negating the severity of your ailment, thus shifting the focus to her.

23. From your childhood you were forced to deal with her negative behavior, which NEVER changes, regardless of how much time has passed.

24. She’s a bully who uses her narcissistic rage to cower and terrorize you.

25. She is neglectful and often requires her children to take care of themselves at a young age.

26. She often fails to protect you, allowing and/or encouraging others to hurt you, especially if you are the scapegoat. She has worked with your enemies to destroy your life.

27. She may physically abuse you using corporal punishment tactics as a form of discipline.

28. She is a master manipulator who uses underhanded tactics to get her way as she delights in throwing a rock and hiding her hand.

29. She gossips and slanders her children to their siblings to keep them divided one against the other, so she maintains control over everyone.

30. She is a DRAMA QUEEN who both creates and feeds off others’ dramas.

31. She is very demanding, and if you are unable to fulfill her requests, you will pay dearly.

32. She practiced ‘parentification’ as you often found yourself looking after her instead of her looking after you.

33. As her golden child, she infantile’d you, keeping you dependent on her so you would never leave her.

34. She’s sly and dishonest and has stolen items or money from you.

35. She sees no boundaries between you and her and often crosses the line.

36. She may project her own neurosis onto you. Often seeing and criticizing her shortcomings by placing them on you.

37. She’s very vain and thinks she is better and smarter than everyone around her.

38. She meddles in your relationships, fearing you may find happiness apart from her.

39. To maintain control in your life, she gossips about you to others, placing herself in the middle as the master manipulator.

40. She can be very rude to people she believes are beneath her.

41. She has an over-inflated sense of entitlement.

42. She categorizes people as being good or bad based on whether they agree with her or not. Her philosophy is, “If you agree with me, you’re good. If you don’t, you’re bad”. These categories are subject to change based on your choices. Although you were previously ‘good,’ once you disagree with her, you are immediately put into the ‘bad’ category.

THE RESULTS

Scoring: Count how many of these traits your mom possesses, then read the key below to find out if your mother is a narcissist.

0–7 — You are blessed to have been born to your mother. Her narcissistic traits are what make her look after you and take care of herself. She is loving and kind and has your best interest at heart. She wants the best for you and would NOT intentionally hurt you.

8- 20 — Your mother is strong-willed but is subject to change. The narcissistic qualities she possesses are in a healthy alignment, and your relationship with her is salvageable. I encourage you to talk about her narcissistic tendencies you dislike as she respects your right to question her behavior.

21–36 — Your mother is a narcissist, but she will NOT go out of her way to hurt you. In fact, she can be pleasant to be around if she is the center of attention and you do NOT challenge her. But tread lightly, as one wrong move can spoil everything! Dealing with her unpleasant side can be nerve-wrecking. The fact that you survived her narcissistic behavior proves how special you truly are. I would love to have the opportunity to talk to you. Schedule a FREE consultation TODAY!

37–42 — Your mom has reached full-blown psychopathy! She is cruel and inflicts unusual punishment on those who she feels have betrayed her. Lies spew out of her mouth like water off a duck’s back! She is a wrecking ball who will ruin your life if you grant her access to it. Your survival proves you have a divine destiny. It is time you surrounded yourself with others who appreciate your innate abilities. Schedule a free consultation TODAY!

The Parasitic Spirit of a Narcissist

Today, the Narcissist ranks number one as the most familiar mental health diagnosis as more people are discovering they were raised, dated, married, or had sibling rivalries with one.  Their traits are well known and online discussions centering around their malicious activities fill up blog posts and chat rooms.  Yet, the most important fact that many have negated is to associate their spiritual composition with these types of individuals.   

Negating the spirit which occupies the physical body is like focusing on the negative behaviors of a vehicle and not holding the driver accountable for his actions.  The spirit of a man is the controlling force which chooses what is and is not acceptable behavior. 

“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness….” Ephesians 6:12

Many of the tactics that are publicly taught to use when dealing with a narcissist is ineffective because they do NOT incorporate the spiritual aspect. You must learn how to do spiritual warfare, which starts with protection work. IF EVERY narcissist has generalized actions, a similar energy (spirit) must inhabit them.

Narcissistic Traits

Pompous sense of importance

Fixation on power, brilliance, beauty, and their idea of love

Believe they are better than everyone around them

Requires excessive admiration and praise

Feelings of entitlement

Lack of empathy

Envious

Exploits others

Arrogant in both behavior and thought

Liars who show no remorse to their victims

The bodies of humanity are vehicles that are occupied by energies called spirits.  There are classifications of spirits which have traits that are unique to each type.  Therefore, narcissists have existed since the beginning of time operating various vehicles cross-culturally.  The words familiar and family share the same base because they are similar in nature.  Familiar spirits gain power when they unite with similar forces to extinguish a different energy (spirit).  The narcissistic mother’s scapegoat is often a light worker who she does NOT consider as part of her family.  Since a familiar force powers her golden child, the narcissistic parent accepts him/her. 

This knowledge was revealed to me as I was divinely led on a journey of self-healing and discovery.  Raised by a narcissistic spirit, my life was harder than most.  Dealing with her rage, gas lighting, and triangulation tactics left me depressed for many years.

I often cried myself to sleep and hid behind a bubble of insecurity as she and my narcissistic sister systematically stripped me of EVERYTHING I held dear.  Incarnating as her scapegoat isolated me, giving me the time I needed to develop my own gifts and abilities so I could learn how our plane of existence operates.

Since childhood, I have had prophetic dreams and was able to communicate with both incarnate and disincarnate spirits.  These abilities made me an empathic person who was able to see behind the physical body and its actions, understanding their motives.  As such, I made more allowances than most and my kindness was often misinterpreted as weakness.  When demonic spirits gossiped about me, sabotaged my life, or belittled me, I rarely fought back because I could understand their need for acceptance and love.  I thought my positive actions towards them would teach them how to behave, but I soon learned this is impossible to do, as narcissistic spirits are incapable of unconditional love and will never change for the better.  As time went on, absorbing their abuse left me in a state of mental despair.

To reclaim my power, I will expose years of their abusive tactics so I and other light workers can be set free.  I have made several podcasts and videos about my narcissistic mother and sisters as instructed by my spirit guides.  Prior to doing this, I failed to publicly expose their abusive behavior.  As a result, I have been gang stalked by them and their recruits.  Avoidance only empowers narcissists, leaving them free to lie to others about you as they continue to destroy lives. 

As the frequencies on the planet rise, more light workers will be tasked with dealing with their unresolved issues, many of which were caused by these parasitic spirits.  The ultimate goal is to prepare for your divine ascension.  I encourage you to visit our website at www.divine-counsel.com, schedule a consultation, join our metaphysical life coaching group, and tune in to my podcast as I reveal ways you can spiritually protect yourself during their destruction and eventual removal.